9 tips on how to read your sexual language
Is she flirting? Smiling? Eye contact? How to pick up on her flirting cues. Interpreting your sexual body language has never been easier.
1: She Starts Grooming – This is also known as making sure she looks her best. Standing more upright, folding the belly and pushing the breasts are spontaneous and instantaneous gestures that interest women. Next, he will straighten her skirt or dress, play with her hair and jewelry, and then disappear into the ladies’ room to take a look. Adjusting and checking appearances is a great sign of flirting with body language. If you catch her staring at your butt when you’re on the way to the bar, or she starts to do her hair when you turn your back, you know she’s sexually interested.
2 eyes. His eyes say it all. A woman who flirts will usually send you three sideways glances. You will receive a second look to confirm that they liked what they saw and a third if they are considering talking to you.
The 4 second scan. We observe uninteresting people for 3 seconds or less. A definite sign of interest is when the girl keeps shooting 4-second glances in your direction.
How the flirtatious woman breaks your look. This is even more important than how he’s been looking at you. If he looks to the side or around the room, you have lost his interest. If their eyes drop to the ground before looking up again to meet yours in 30 to 60 seconds, you have a chance. Downcast eyes followed by a grooming cue like playing games or tossing her hair indicate that she is liking what she is seeing.
If you’re looking at her and your eyes lock, a flirting woman will often lift her upper lids slightly and quickly. This is a very subtle eye opening movement that says, “I’m looking at you.”
Zero eye communication means zero connection. Time to move on to someone else. A raised eyebrow usually indicates a question of some kind. The more you look someone in the eye, the more attractive, confident and sincere you seem.
3ft. Feet can be a great indicator of the true feelings of the flirting woman. Few people notice what they do with their feet unconsciously because they are so far from our faces. This places them well above the credibility scale.
By pointing a foot at you, the flirting woman is telling you that you can join her group.
She is a bit defensive if she has one leg crossed over the other, but while one foot is still pointing at you, it still looks good. Once he uncrosses his legs and begins to mirror the position of your foot, this is a better sign that he likes you.
His foot between your feet is an obvious gesture of sexual body language. Better yet, if she should bend her knee and touch his or his leg while both of you are standing. Both suggest strong messages of sexual flirtation.
4: Body posture: The flirting woman has her shoulders back and her breasts forward. A hand placed on a sexy protruding hip is a flirtatious signal for you to join her. Putting a hand on the back of your hips can also be a gesture to emphasize your small waist. Arching her spine in a ‘C’ shape showing both her breasts and her butt is body language that invites you to see her.
A sign of strongly sexual body language is when you begin to lean forward bringing your arms closer to your body, pressing your breasts together, and deepening your cleavage.
Playing with her necklace is another subconscious flirting gesture. Her frolicking with the jewels on her neck invites you to look at her breasts, a definite erotic sign for you that she is flirting is when she begins to caress her throat, neck or upper chest. The signal is even stronger if you combine petting with a neck bow. By tilting his head to show you more of his neck, he is implying that he is beginning to trust you. Throats and necks are “lover’s zones”, places where no one else grabs us. Stroking your neck or chest also draws the gaze to your breasts.
5: Playing With Her Hair: Fluffing her hair, running her fingers through her hair and the strongest sign of body language, flirting, shaking her hair are designed to show you that she’s available.
6: Her Legs – While sitting, women often cross their legs to look sexy, feminine, or just to show them off. The higher you cross your legs over your thighs, the stronger the sexual signal. If she’s also smiling at you, showing eye contact, and resting one hand on her lap, this is extremely strong sexual body language. Smoothing their hands on their thighs is another common grooming sign for women when they are in the company of someone they find sexually attractive.
By sitting with your legs extended to the side, you are making an obvious attempt to make your legs look longer and to be good for whoever is looking at you. The more frequently you cross and uncross your legs while in front of you, the better your chances. The more thigh I expose, the more likely it is to be hot for you.
If you are barefoot, she will start to tiptoe if she thinks attractive men are nearby. By doing this, her legs look longer, her body slimmer, and she generally looks more feminine.
7: Her wrists and palms: Women will show their wrist to someone they are interested in. While playing with her hair or fiddling with an earring, check to see if her wrist is turned towards you with the palm facing out. As he shows you the doll, he says, “You can come closer to me.”
8: Does he want to kiss you? If she is doing any of these, then the answer is probably YES!
Licking her lips. When faced with something that turns them on, they all lick their lips.
Suggestively eating and drinking, licking and licking fingers. All the ways to advertise your talents.
Keep touching her mouth. Everyone’s lips become engorged when we get turned on, making us more aware of them and more likely to play with them.
Bring his head close to yours: it is almost always an invitation to kiss.
Head tilt: position yourself subconsciously.
9: Want more? Towards the end of the match, you can check their intentions with this little quiz. Take a step towards her and then quickly take a step back. If you are interested, you will now step forward to close the gap without even realizing that you are doing it.
The other trick you can try is to lower your voice to a whisper. If he stays where he is and yells at you that he can’t hear you, then he won’t come any closer.
What the color of her clothes says about her:
Red: She is happy to be the center of attention and is not afraid of her feelings.
Black: elegant, chic and original.
White: Look at me.
Navy Blue: Keep up the business.
Light blue: Composite.
Hot Pink: You want to stand out from the crowd.
Light pink: fragile.
The art of flirting and interpreting sexual body language has never been easier to understand. Never misunderstand the situation again! Apply these dating tips and get out there now!
Good luck, Coco Swan.