Surprisingly, the most common problem couples have sexually is putting too much pressure on each other. Instead of sex being a time to celebrate relationships and have a good time, it becomes a weird form of work where the guy’s goal is to make her orgasm. If she doesn’t orgasm, he often feels like a failure, even if the rest of the relationship is pretty solid. The irony is that all this pressure makes it much less likely that she will orgasm. This is why it can be beneficial for couples to play an orgasm game.
One thing that is important to the sexual experience is the feeling of regression: going back to a carefree, fun-loving state. Orgasm games are a great way to take advantage of this state. Simply adding an adult touch to any game can make it really fun. Strip card games and naked tornado are some of the most fun, but just about anything that’s fun can be used. The key is to keep it fun and enjoyable, but also erotic and adult at the same time!
My favorite orgasm game
Most of these games are best enjoyed during foreplay, as during sex it’s quite easy to forget the game and focus on other things. My favorite foreplay is ‘shape play’. While you are licking her body or giving her oral sex, you can lick some shapes on her body. This opens up a range of new angles and touches and also focuses his attention on your every move.
The lyrics have so many possibilities for some really sexy fun. Try making different shapes on your body and see your response. The letter ‘i’ with the dot representing a hard kiss on the clitoris is a shape that is great for most women. Similarly, the letter ‘f’ with the horizontal part representing your tongue moving from side to side and the curved part representing your tongue arching around the clitoris will make any woman go wild. The possibilities are endless. I once won two vacation tickets in a raffle. When he asked where we were going, I licked the name of the destination on his body. Luckily for her, the answer was Rio de Janeiro!
Games are great for couples as they take the pressure off that can sometimes creep into relationships. They also allow you to experiment with slightly unusual fantasies, since the context of the “game” is fun and non-threatening. Make it fun enough and naturally she’ll want to play to the end, provided she’s the first of course…