One of the biggest factors in creating sexual tension is your ability to not act needy…which has more to do with your self-image and overcoming your insecurities than your “behaviors” alone.
1) Do not take advantage of something.
Let’s say the woman you’re talking to is wearing a sexy outfit. She gets up and crosses the room to find something. She knows you’re going to be watching her.
But you don’t.
When he turns to go back, you’re looking at your shoes and commenting on how good your taste is.
This is subtle, but powerful.
Do not take advantage of a look, a touch, a kiss, etc. when available it increases sexual tension.
2) Push her away.
Let’s say you have your first kiss.
Gently nudge her just before the kiss “should” end. He shakes his head. Say, “you’re trouble.”
voltage constructions.
3) End interactions first.
If you’re on the phone with her and you’re both enjoying the conversation, say, “Okay, I’ve got stuff to do. See you around.”
This is magic.
Not only are you ending a great conversation when it was on a positive note, but you’re also not trying to get anything out of it.
Most guys hang on and stay on the phone forever, then ask for a date or if they can call later. Don’t do it. Just hang up the phone.
If it’s the end of the date, leave a little too soon.
The point is to create tension in the moment.
– Everyday situations
In almost every situation there is an opportunity to escalate the tension.
When you do this, you create a very special emotion for women.
It’s that combination of her laughing, her not knowing what’s going to happen next, and you not acting like a coward…
It’s that special curiosity that awakens inside a woman when she doesn’t know what’s going to happen… but she wants to know…
It’s that magical moment when it’s obvious most guys would start acting like clingy cowards, and you sit back like you have all the time in the world…and you don’t need a thing.
These things turn on and amplify sexual tension.
And they instantly communicate to women that you understand something most men don’t.
Now, of course, this is not a simple topic.
There is much more. In fact, one of the most important factors in creating sexual tension is your ability to not act needy…which has more to do with your self-image and overcoming your insecurities than with your “behaviors” for yes alone
As you probably know, I think it’s just as important to work on your “Inner Game” as it is to work on our “Outer Game.”
It is just as important to learn how to change the way you think and feel as it is to learn words and actions.
You must start on the inside and work on the outside.
You can memorize word for word the 100 best pick up lines ever created, but if you care too much about what women think of you, then they’re not worth it.
In fact, almost nothing will work if you don’t have your Inner Game in order.