If you are in a relationship that is going nowhere, then you feel the need to assess your man’s true intentions. But before you stop having sex to understand his level of commitment, there are certain things you need to understand and consider before making a decision.
The force cannot compete
While denying her sex can have its advantages, getting her to commit by denying her sex can be a long shot. Remember that force does not drive relationships. If you want to go ahead and withhold sex, do it to give your man a gentle push so he sees the benefits of committing to you. Don’t make it an act of revenge.
Sex is just one part of a relationship.
Remember that sex is only one part of a relationship. It is something that all men give a lot of importance to, but the ideal is that you do not take advantage of it as a negotiation strategy. This will make you look shallow in front of your man.
Men don’t like to be manipulated.
You should also know that men do not like women who try to manipulate them. If your man finds out that you refuse to give him sex in order to manipulate him into a commitment, then things could go wrong.
Saying yes could be a temporary solution
If you feel like your man will commit to you after you hide the sex from him, then you might be wrong. Your man might turn the tides against you and agree to commit only as a temporary solution with no real intention of moving forward.
Shifting attention from sex that right way
If you want to retain sex, then you have to make her happy about other things as well. Making him see how good you have it together is more likely to make him want to commit to you than making him miserable alone.
Being physically absent for a while
Absence makes a man realize what he has and how good his life is when he is with you. Completely disconnect from him so he gets the real picture of how lonely his life will be when you’re not in it. You will deny him sex, but without him perceiving you as manipulative.
Know the real reason behind not committing
Before you withhold sex, you need to know the real reason your man is unwilling to commit to you. Once you get these answers, you will be able to approach the problem in the right way and get your man to commit.