It’s no secret, like almost every other man in the world, ever since I was old enough, sex has consumed my mind. At that time I was not old enough to understand the difference between good sex, good sex, bad sex, great sex… Sex was sex. And then sex was mainly Internet pornography, which at that time was not as developed as it is now. This was back in the days of dial-up, when you “surfed the web” with a free trial of AOL, Compuserve, or Prodigy. I guess at the time, modems weren’t fast enough to watch video like you can see today. A picture said more than a thousand words. The only videos were on tapes that some friend had found in his parents’ secret stash in the closet. VHS tapes, not DVDs…
I guess at the time, I just assumed that all sex was big-time porn star sex. With the size and stamina of porn star boys, and that all the girls would take it as porn star girls. After all, pornography was basically my manual, a guide that took me up close and personal with the birds and the bees (an analogy I still don’t understand). Tips on how to give her good sex.
But that was then and this is now. I’m not a virgin anymore, and I understand the difference between the various levels of sex, from bad to GREAT! And reality set in as far as my sexual performance compared to porn star sex. But at first, even bad sex was sex, so it was great. How to give her good sex wasn’t that important. He wasn’t even that interested in sex tips. It wasn’t until later that I really learned the difference, and now that I’m older, I really care about having big romps in the bag instead of a mediocre sprint.
My goals have changed, and I realized how much better great sex is compared to bad sex, or even good sex. And don’t get me wrong, okay, the sex isn’t bad, and probably has the highest frequency, but still, when it comes time and the kids (the forget-me-nots of a hopefully cool twirl through the sheets because having kids because a quickie of 2 minutes is a shame) they are at grandma’s house; that’s the time for GREAT sex. One night with my wife, a nice dinner, a couple of drinks, a few games of pool, a bit of dancing and ending with “there’s no one to wake up, I’m going to make you scream for your life, position after position, I wish I had this moment.” of glory on video that, if it were anything else, you would tell the kids when they were older.
Well, I also found out the hard way that that wasn’t as easy as it sounds either. Even when the kids are away and you can do whatever you want, it doesn’t always go as planned. You are tired from a long day at work, as you get older your sexual desire is not as intense as before and you do not have sex every day (sometimes several times a day) as in the honeymoon years, your stamina may have decreased a little. little of what once was.
I already went through that. But I’ve also stumbled upon another secret that women have been keeping from us; Kegel exercises for men. Yes, men can do it too. Just like keeping your other muscles in shape, you can keep your sexual muscles (PC muscles) in shape through Kegel exercises. You can do them like women do, squeezing the muscles of your Spot (not your balls, not your butt), holding and releasing. Or I’ve also found a game that allows you to do Kegels like a man should, with weights.
But whichever way you decide to do the exercises, take this secret and run with it. Do it for your pre-teen self who was “surfing the web” with dreams of a big-time porn star. Do it for the porn star manual you used as a guide to give advice. Do it for yourself, here and now. You spend your life living for your family, take this one and do it for yourself. And I’m sure her wife will be more than happy to let her heart race and her juices flow. Because that other secret. Women love sex, too, but not the in-and-out minute that precedes my nap. Great, I’m going to make you cum twice (but that’s an article for another time). It is a win-win situation. Enjoy!!