If you hear someone say that they are married but available, this may be mystifying. After all, if you are married, how can you be available?
Unlike those who believe in monogamy and fidelity, some people believe that it is okay to have additional relationships outside of their marriage. Generally, both husband and wife will participate in this arrangement and both will enjoy partners outside of marriage.
Other times, one of the spouses may be in the dark about this love activity that is taking place. In this case, the retiring couple will have to resort to creative ways not to get trapped. This could be going to a different city to meet someone or keeping the encounters very short, without even telling the new couple true and revealing information about themselves. Keeping it pretty casual.
Either way, if you are interested in dating someone who is married without your spouse knowing about it, you may want to keep a few things in mind.
- Never give gifts. Giving gifts is a no-no, as this can be discovered by the other spouse and can lead to being discovered.
- Never get emotionally attached. Keep it light and simple. Chances are, the cheater you are dating is never intending to divorce their spouse, but is just looking to have a good time.
- Do not go out in public places where you can be caught. It seems like there is always a good chance of running into someone you know, especially if you don’t want to. Instead, follow Tiger Woods’ lead and face a long, long way from home.
- Make sure you set all the rules ahead of time. If you don’t want to be called, let them know. And never, never put anything in writing, neither on paper nor in a text. This is a sure way to get discovered.
There are many reasons why people cheat and say they are married but available. Sometimes it can be due to an abusive relationship or one that started too young. At other times, the spouse may have been ill for a long time with no possibility of recovery. Still, sometimes there will be no real reason why the person has decided to leave their partner. So keep these points in mind, if you are looking for someone married to go out and just enjoy the moment.